Silk'n Steel
A Motor City Girl...
Friday, January 31, 2014
You make plans and God laughs...
Mostly, I was concerned about my little girls. I had been trying to get my bills in order and under control before the girls came, so I could handle everything after they arrived. Alas, this new twist messed my plans quite a bit.
So, I'm slowly getting back on my feet and getting the apartment in order. Since I'm not bringing any money in, I am keeping up more of the chores and prepping for our move when the lease is up in May. I wish I could afford to be a stay-at-home mommy, but that's just not in the cards right now.
I have applied for government assistance for the first time ever. It's a crazy and overwhelming process! Honestly, that's the major stress in my world right now. I am looking for a new job, but I'm not expecting many companies will want to hire someone who is six months pregnant. I'm trying to be positive, but some days it is more of a challenge.
If anyone has any brilliant ideas on how to actually earn a living while taking care of my girls, I'm all ears. Sadly, I'm not great at sales, so all of the options of having sales parties don't seem to work for me. But I'd love to be able to do some photography!
So wish me luck and let me know if you have any ideas! :)
Wednesday, September 11, 2013
Second Christmas a second time!
This is perfect because I have no venue and I'm no good at food. I am, however, decent at coordinating people. Yay!
Tuesday, September 10, 2013
Like a kid a Christmas...
For some reason, I'm all psyched up about Christmas already. Today it is supposed to be in the 90's and I just want to bake Christmas cookies. No, I'm not actually doing it, but that's mostly because my work schedule doesn't allow it.
Last year was the first year we tried a fun new idea and it went very well! Due to my work schedule at the airport, I couldn't be home for Christmas. It was the first year that I couldn't be there on Christmas Day! So my mom came up with this nifty idea. Since my brother and I wouldn't be in town until the weekend after Christmas, she set up "Second Christmas."
Now, Second Christmas turned out to be a lot like regular Christmas, but on a different date. We still did breakfast food around noon. All the usual family members showed up, plus more!
Often on actual Christmas, the family members all have very busy schedules and they can only stay for a little while. On Second Christmas, there are fewer places to be, so we can actually socialize for a while.
I've realized that this works very well for me because now I can enjoy Christmas with Dale's family without having to rush out early in the morning to visit my family. With Second Christmas, I can actually relax a bit and enjoy being with family.
I'm so excited for Christmas and Second Christmas!
Monday, May 20, 2013
The Color Run
After the run, there was an after party where they threw even more color! Even the people who came with us, but didn't run got to get some color. I let Fifi wear my white t-shirt so she could get it properly full of color.
I will definitely do this again! It was such a great time had by all/
Sunday, April 14, 2013
Bowling with a curve
I'm hoping my friend can borrow his mom's reactive bowling ball, so I can see how that helps. My ball is made for bowling straight, so it goes straight usually. A reactive ball should curve more with my new style. :)
I'm excited to try something new!
Thursday, April 4, 2013
I ran 3 miles today!
This is huge for me! I've never been one to run if I could help it. Add in some really crappy lungs in a rather out-of-shape girl and I'm kinda impressed that I could finish at all! My legs didn't really feel the burn until after the first two miles. My lungs, on the other hand, felt it pretty much right away.
I have found that having my Kindle there with a good book helps pass the time and takes my mind off the pain. If I have something to concentrate on that isn't my lungs or legs on fire I seem to go farther faster.
Happy St. Patrick's Day!
I had to work Saturday night, as usual, so it started with a 12-hour shift then a 3-hour drive. I then stopped at my parents' house to say hi, take a shower, then headed to my best friend's baby's baptism. It was Cayla's big day and she was so good and quiet, even. After mass I chased Bella (her big sister) around the church for a little while so the parents had a chance to chat with family and friends without much worry for her. They then were planning to go to brunch, but I went home to take a quick snooze instead.
Too soon it was time to go to grandma's. I had a few surprises to reveal when we got there. My two little nieces had no idea I was coming in for this and I got to surprise them. I even had birthday presents for both of them! After being attacked at the door by Fifi, I also surprised Sam. They loved their birthday presents!
Then it was time for chilling out and eating. Grandma was worried that we wouldn't have enough desserts, so of course everyone brought desserts and she had too many desserts! But the corned beef was amazing as always. It was great to have a chance to hang out with my family for a change. Even one of my cousins' best friend showed up and it turns out that he is a bagpiper with the Cleveland Fire Department Pipe and Drum Corps. So we had our very own bagpipe entertainment!
Overall, it was a great time and I'm so glad I had a chance to go this year.
Monday, March 11, 2013
Poor skunks!
On the way home from work the other day I was listening to the Canadian country station. Since people can't keep from talking on the radio in the morning, I ended up listening to the news section.
There is actually a city (or maybe county, I wasn't listening too intently) that enacted a program to temporarily (so far) euthanize skunks. They are going to hire one person and contract with a local veterinarian to kill skunks.
My question is what did skunks ever do to harm people? Raccoons have a worse temper and porcupines are more dangerous when frightened. Seriously people, how bad are skunks?
They even had a sound clip of some guy who had been outside grilling when two skunks walked into his yard. He took the chance to walk into his house until they vacated his yard. By that point his steaks were burnt. Silly me, I blame the overdone steaks on the idiot who fled from skunks instead of continuing to grill in a non-threatening manner until the critters left.
Come on! What happened to live and let live? End rant... for now anyway.
Friday, January 18, 2013
Lucky Girl...
At the airport, I get to hang with pilots and work with awesome people. I even get some awesome photo models in the form of some gorgeous planes. I love being in this environment and I never could have imagined having such an awesome career.
At the trucking company, I'm constantly learning so much. I may work in dispatch, but I have responsibilities in so many places. I am learning about a bunch of different aspects of running a company.
I'm such a lucky girl, I just don't think many people actively appreciate what they have and I just wanted to share.
Wednesday, January 9, 2013
Organization started!
I'm hoping this will clear up my desk and the area near my desk. I'll be using recipe boxes for my postcard stuff right now, but if I find something else, I'll switch it out.
Now I just have to update my corkboards for the new year and wait for glue to cure and I'll have a bunch of stuff to do tomorrow!